well then I'm really lucky. He actually got all excited when I showed him that cake. The company said they can fly some people to NY with the cake parts and assemble it here (.. in a few years) the only pain in the ass is the two of us will need to fly to California to design it and taste some cake.
I'm in that large group of girls who grew up watching nothing but Disney princess movies and feels like their life will be over without a massive wedding. It's ok, his mom is a doctor.