Some folks are up to giving the other the benefit of the doubt, and some aren't. That's their choice. Most TSD members are willing. We have no control over who joins TSD, but we do have a say in who stays. And we don't ban people at the drop of a hat.
I'm glad they won't know.........I was in an AOL chatroom many years ago, and blocked someone and said person sure did publicize her feelings about that.
I am going to say this. You simply are choosing to ignore what everyone has said. Clearly there's no explaining this to you. Guess what button I am now going to employ...
Peace comes (too often, sadly) only through superior firepower and everyone knowing you're willing to use it. This is an unfortunate but indisputable fact of preserving any functioning society, large or small, meatspace or cyber. Lament it if you want but trollhammers exist for a damn good reason: trolls ain't too keen on taking polite hints.